It takes two to tango

I love that it takes a husband and a wife (an egg and a sperm) to create a baby.
While I love my personality I know I have some flaws.  As December 2015 was coming to a close I was talking with my husband about insurance and where we stand on embryo adoption and the wonderful family that offered to donate their embryo....
It was hard for us to decided, or I should say it was hard for him to understand and accept these embryos. Although I may never know why I truly respect him of his opinion and choice and knew that I had to contact my sweet dear new friend who offered us to use these embryos to grow our family.
It was one of the hardest email I had to write. I didn't want her thinking any different than I was, but I had to explain...It takes two to tango and even in embryo adoption/donation my husband and I have to be on the same page. He was willing to wait on our dr. wait list.

Honestly, I didn't care much to sharing this story with my blog, but I hope if someone comes across reading this and trying to decided weather to donate left over embryos I want them to understand its hard for us on the other side too. We don't take it lightly and we love you for any donation you give us, weather it be advice or support or even embryo, we are so grateful.

Please know their are many clinics, agency, and facebook support groups that will help couples match for embryos. They treat them as embryos, future babies having DNA from one family and being raised up by another. All with Love